I absolutely HATE when people spout "If they wanted to, they would" No. Sometimes people are stubborn and prideful. Sometimes you MIGHT WANT TO but you don't cause it's scary, or inherently a bit mental. People have a vast array of fuckedup-ness. It's never THAT simple.

So anyway yeah, sick of it. This is cause I just saw someone post a "self empowerment realisations" thing on IG and genuinely been raging about it since. Let's not diminish each other to buzz phrases, we are complex messy bastards. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.