so peeps with multiple pronouns in their bios does the order matter to you? for example for me the first one is usually my current preference, the soup if you will, and the second pronoun is like the croutons to sprinkle in occasionally?

Short answer, for me personally: No preference, whichever is fine, in whatever frequency you like. For a longer answer, I wrote a thread a while ago that still mostly applies:

i did eventually land on she/her exclusively but when I was using multiple, yeah, I was trying to signal a preference with the order. i changed the order from they/she to she/they, as I got more confident asserting (to myself as much as anyone) that I wanted to be she/her'd.

yes, basically. also depends how im dressed/presenting.

I prefer they/them, with sher/her as a nice once in a while treat. So yes, order does matter to me here in bluesky. That said, it's not a fixed thing for me. I flip them around a lot with folks I'm close with.

I see it as I expected the 'she' but if I get the 'it' it's a pleasant treat. If I got it too frequently it'd kinda spoil it.