The 'crisis in men' is not a crisis upon men but a crisis within men, they suck, mostly because they want to suck and don't want to improve, as society demands of them.

Have you seen Twitter lately? Just awful.

"But but its the WIMMINS responsibility to make sure we are not lonely or left behind financially/in our educations!" How dudes can say this without a hint of irony or self awareness is beyond me. Been riding mediocrity for so f'n long and are just SHOCKED that no one wants to deal with their shit

"the world used to revolve around me, and now it doesn't. we need to get back to that"

The "crisis in men" is actually a crisis in boys. They are being bombarded with the worst role models confidently telling them that being a man means being a shitty human being. Shitty men by and large aren't born, they're made.

My favorite is “I’m not gonna apologise for being a man”. Like who are you talking to?? Who asked for that apology?

"The purpose of a system is what it does" is such a great heuristic.

Hence the value of other men going “what the hell is your problem”

“Who’s going to solve my problems?” You are, buddy. That’s how this works. No one else is going to do it; no one else can do it It’s not your mommy or anyone else’s job to pick up the pieces for you It’s on page one of The Man Code, did nobody tell them?

It’s honestly pathetic to see Everything wrong with their life is someone else’s fault Loser behavior

Society doesn’t demand enough and a lot of institutions (looking at you churches) aren’t doing their job. Otoh, that’s a men problem too.