Speaking of followers and families, I’d like there to be a better romance system than Skyrim’s bare-bones effort. Also, you’d have to work to maintain the relationship(s) and not get caught cheating (unless your spouse is poly) lest the relationship suffer or even end.

With different personalities comes different preferences. A warrior / adventurer is not going to be happy left at home raising the kids, and a homely, shy type isn’t going to want to go dungeon-crawling.