All of these things are tied to being autistic. And they are all things that will always be a struggle for me. No amount of society changing to meet my needs will change that. Just like how no amount of making society more accessible for paraplegics will let them walk again.

"Just like how no amount of making society more accessible for paraplegics will let them walk again." if it were equally easy to get from place to place in a wheelchair the inability to walk would be about as problematic as the fact that my fingers are too short for many musical instruments.