We don't see, for instance, people running fundraisers and nonprofits to oppose gender nonconformity. You do see some groups with a focus on it (churches that preach complementarianism) but that's not their sole issue.

(Note that none of this is meant to minimize the very real, fucked up, and harmful shit that is happening to transgender folks. Like. Shit is bad. But I also think that "being shitty about gender" not going to prove a long-term political strategy and that things will get better.)