Wild idea: everyone deserves the same rights as you, even if in the moment they are not being actively super nice to you

not a real ally to begin with, just someone following a social fashion

You said it, Scoob!

Also and as a tangent, I don't tend to identify myself as an ally because it's not up to me to determine whether my actions and positions merit such a status, it's up to others. I just work on trying to be a decent human generally, and let others decide how that stacks up for them.

Their rights aren't contingent on how they treat you.