No, it's not. Sorry, but it's just not. Old pro-Europeans need to stop ventriloquising young voters motivated by Middle East and public services or you will continue to be blown away by events you do not understand.

A UK government that does not put relations with the EU on a more stable keel will also get blown away by events it won't see coming

This is a big part of why it doesn't get a hearing! Everyone in all the political parties can see what drives shifts within the left bloc, and they all know full well that it is not EU policy.