Yesterday, I asked what ADHD/autistic folks expect from friendships. Here are some of the common themes: • Authenticity - To not have to mask constantly with friends and to be ourselves • Non-judgmental - To not feel judged for our differences or our needs (1/3)

• Showing up - To be there in big and small ways, whether that's checking in or major mutual aid • Accepting special interests - Even if they aren't as interested as we are in our special interests or hyperfixations, listening (and sharing their own) is nice (2/3)