It has been about 14 mo since the last breach. And I have been doing amazing. But today it was breached. I can ignore the breach. I can continue my healthy separation. And I know that is the best. But I still feel unsteady and weak today. I am my masks but hollow today. Will delete later. 5/5
This no contact has been one of the greatest things for my well-being physically and mentally. And everytime it is broken thru some unforeseen avenue, no matter how good I have been doing I start to crumble. 3/x
About 3 years ago I went no contact with my whole family. Many of them because it was dangerous for me to continue having any kind of relationship with them, but most because they were enablers who put of their goodness want to "repair" the relationships. 2/x
How do I look up this mute list? I have some following to do.
Someone just confirmed and tested for me: Fuck cant be used as a handle. So cuss words are filtered but not slurs. Take that info with what you will. They KNOW. Fuck that. Yall rlly said no cuss words in handle but allow slurs against marginalized people.
Honestly there is no back pedaling this. I can't speak for anyone else but my ability to put aside the greed of big studio execs for the art was tenuous yesterday. It disappeared this morning and even a fantastic deal with WGA might not being it back.
I was scrolling through the main feed, not a personalized one and got a surprisingly decent dick pic. Not complaining about that, but yeah the double standard.
The "YouTuber' [derogatory]" that really started my sociological awareness evolution is here on BlueSky now. @librariananansi.bsky.social least I can do is give them a shout-out. Thanks for what you do.
I'm confused, at work today I did practically nothing. And I only being paid a buck fifty over minimum wages. I thought the going rate for 'practically nothing' is in the millions.
Civility is about comforting the comfortable. Justice is about comforting the afflicted and *afflicting* the comfortable. If "etiquette" advice can be used in service of the former and to suppress the latter, it's just toxic and oppressive civility discourse. The end.