still thinking about this. i have a lot of opinions on trans romance that would get people on my back so i dont say them but im very firm in my belief of "im glad t4t is a thing but i dont really subscribe to it because, to me, it implies a separation between trans and cis people that i dont like"

like, i definitely have preferences that i wont name but like. i feel like i should be able to say 'i like girls' and the default assumption of my peers is cis women are included. this is almost certainly in part with my desire to be 'stealth' but. idk. im very firm in this belief.

Here's my personal opinion re: t4t being default