I think one of the major reasons so many male influencers operate in the self-help tradition, for better and (much) worse, is because a lot of guys really do need to shape the fuck up and know it.

Nailed it I was a shitass spoiled kid that never did my own laundry. Family had businesses. So I joined the Army and it was the best/worst thing to happen to me (first gulf war really fucked me up)

Oh, my. This is very insightful! Michael Tae has really put his finger on a powerful occult reason for the dissatisfaction and grievance of the male Trumpsters.

This is the key! And why I find it all kind of tragic.

Unfortunately shaping the fuck up for a lot of influencers just involves misogyny, eating disorders, and PEDs.