As far as extreme kink goes, I have a pretty vivid memory of lying face down on her bedroom floor, crying harder than I ever have in my life into her carpet, and her doorbell ringing, and I remember thinking it must be the police because of how much I had been screaming, and feeling resigned

I’m happily into some fairly heavy kink, I have been for years, with a fair number of partners. That’s not an uncommon experience for me, that’s a unique one

Her story was the opposite when she joined a server recently. Maybe bdsm should involve written contracts and signatures, I've heard so many of this exact kind of story where both sides are the victim. We'll probably never know unless enough people come forward