It’s tempting, even (especially?) as a victim, to do the Gus Grissom, ‘we’re engaged in a dangerous business’ thing, but that isn’t true and it’s a poisonous idea because when kink is involved there should be more caution, not less

I love that kink is a part of my life, it’s important to me, and I don’t think it is fair for me or anyone to come away with the idea that because of it they deserve to be assaulted, or that that assault is in some way mitigated