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Anastasia she/her or they/them
@starshadw.bsky.social
I am made up of nothing more than wishes and dreams, and if I told you all of my secrets, there would be nothing left of me at all. she/her or they/them
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Fuck me, I really need to make sure I'm awake before posting so I can use correct grammar and not leave words out.

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This infuriates me on so many levels.

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I've been saying for YEARS that we are yet again implementing technology without taking the time to deal with the ethics beforehand. All the articles about men abusing doing horrendous things to their "robot girlfriends" is deeply disturbing.

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Lidded coffee mug, for when her OT wants her to start trying to make her own coffee again. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BL7J8NXL

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Way sturdier than it looks, and will slide under a chair/sofa: www.amazon.com/dp/B07DRGZMHQ

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Just know that even "simple" and minimal caregiving is going to wipe you out. Links to some other things we've found are great incoming. 19/?

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And again, She (and we) got *lucky*. She can take herself to the bathroom during the day with her walker. She doesn't need help using the bathroom. She does need help with getting in/out of the bathtub (we got a transfer bench for that), but her OT is handling that for now. 18/?

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And I'm flat-out exhausted these days. Just absolutely BEAT. So be ready for that. I'm slowly getting used to the additions to my schedule, and I'm hoping that in a few more weeks, maybe I'll be less wrecked. Just be ready, if you're going to be in a similar position. 17/?

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My caregiving right now has probably added 3 hrs into my day, which doesn't sound like a lot, but trust me, it IS. I take care of getting her meds set up, make sure she has tea/coffee throughout the day, bring her lunch and dinner, and then make sure she's got everything at bedtime. 16/?

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Anastasia she/her or they/them
@starshadw.bsky.social
I am made up of nothing more than wishes and dreams, and if I told you all of my secrets, there would be nothing left of me at all. she/her or they/them
70 followers182 following472 posts