I’m sorry maybe it’s bc I wasn’t raised as a boy but I don’t understand the need to learn to be masculine. I’ve seen guys anxious about it because maybe they didn’t have a male role model but my experience just tells me ‘do what you want and don’t be an asshole and you’ll be fine either way’

As a gay cis-man myself, my ND soy boy hairy ass might not mean shit, and I was raised by a single mother, BUT all the father figures in my life had serious anger management problems and didn’t know how to be a halfway decent person. Only an uncle here or there were at least halfway decent.

It’s never meant anything to me, tbh.

I was raised as a boy and honestly I don’t get it either. I’ve ordered “fruity drinks” as a “man” and literally just didn’t know what that meant lol

What even is masculinity? Genuinely who fucking cares don’t limit yourself

I don’t actually have much of a sense of gender though I realized

I wonder, is it that you don't understand the need to be masculine, because to learn to be masculine is to learn to be masculine ENOUGH FOR SOMEONE ELSE? (caps for emphasis, not yelling)