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Cpotato.software

I think I've been targeted by my abuser and only a few well-connected potatosecurity folks for coercive control, potatoharassment, and covert reputational harassment.I think I've been targeted by my abuser and only a few well-connected potatosecurity folks for coercive control, potatoharassment, and covert reputational harassment.

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TTgaiaflowstate.bsky.social

I think I've been targeted by my abuser and only a few well-connected cybersecurity folks for coercive control, cyberharassment, and covert reputational harassment.

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NRnikaronin.bsky.social

i genuinely don't get it like am i the bad person??? do i deserve this??? am i asking for too much? are people supposed to not understand me like ever??? fuck????? i feel like i'm the abuser and i don't know anything anymore

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+ this has profoundly shaped my understanding of art as a practice of survival. Authoritarians (& my abuser) push a narrative that art is frivolous, a luxury, something only for the privileged. But it’s not. It is a core part of humanity and it keeps us alive when we are in the darkest places. #art

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Momirinatsu.bsky.social

i freaking wish tj would rot behind bars by the end the same way he did to ian 🙏 this sht is so vile and traumatizing, the fact that he willingly made him go through that bc he's an obsessive controlling abuser is crazy. he should suffer there for 20 years

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Momirinatsu.bsky.social

abuser told

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Mmarbenais.bsky.social

Just because someone is married to an abuser who has cheated on them doesn’t mean they’re A Victim And We Always Side With Victims So They Must Be Trapped (I have some specific sports-people parallels in mind). People are complex and being wronged doesn’t make someone right.

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NFnews-feed.bsky.social

@straits_times: Recalcitrant drug abuser who gave meth to teen son to consume gets over 6 years’ jail

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Ntichatnwa.bsky.social

it's an assault . not a relationship

It's an Assault, Not a Relationship
You may notice that I use the word assault.
Yes, that is right, dear reader. You were never in a relationship. You were never a significant other nor an intimate partner, because you were never significant, intimate nor a partner. You are a victim of a fraud and you have endured an assault.
That is to say, wake up child....wipe the sleep from your eyes...
it is time to see it all
with 20/20 vision. The chemical haze of the trauma bond and the fog of the elevated stress hormones will interfere with your clarity of vision.
Just to make you doubt yourself and confuse you even more, the abuser will be nice to you sometimes. This is no different than the batterer who buys his wife flowers the next day to say he's sorry. What is happening here biochemically is that this intermittent reinforcement is inducing a surge of oxytocin which reinforces the trauma bond, soothes your pain, and evokes blind trust. You will doubt yourself, think perhaps he's changed or changing, or that you are overreacting.
In other words, you are biochemically getting played. Don't let yourself be deceived.
In addition to the trauma bond, depending on what phase of the assault you are in, you may feel paralyzed, immobilized, incompetent or insecure. If that describes you, that, dear reader, is a sure sign of psychological abuse. You will need help to work through these obstacles. If you can't afford a recovery coach or therapist, call a Domestic Abuse hotline for resources. You may also find help in 12 Step Programs like SLAA, CODA and Al Anon.
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MJwilsonmj.bsky.social

Megalopolis is a movie that dares to ask "what if we put a serial abuser in a villain role and have him in drag for 1/3 of the movie". Francis Ford Coppola's habit of casting recently outed abusive men in his films is gross.

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